How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 02:41
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What was your embarrassing moment in front of your father-in-law as an Indian daughter-in-law?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Is it normal to hate my dog, but feel too guilty to get rid of him?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Can I fix a fridge leak myself, or should I call a pro?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Why do White people love dogs more than humans?
Ask yourself:
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
How does Arab culture and values differ from western culture and values?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
How come Taiwan is LGBT friendly, yet Japan and South Korea are not?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Which is the most liked web series in India?
That's it for today.
Does not procrastinate.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
What does it mean when you dream that your mother died?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Procrastinates a lot.
Hangs out with loser friends.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What I need from you?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.